sometimes when we out of plan or we were out of idea - we tend to wait and see.
most people have done it before.
afraid to make any drastic or any big decision - we tend to lay back and said 'wait and see'.
it seems like we don't have any back up plan or any concrete movement to do next.
marriage is not small or tiny little things.
marriage is big. its big enuf to reminds us that we have to be prepared. well prepared.
but what if the obstacle that came is too big for us to ignore?
we had prepared everything but its still come and we dont know what to do.
because we seems out of solutions.
and we back to basic things - we wait and see.
after a year - we tried again. and the obstacle still coming in our way.
by right - we already have back up plan. but suprisingly - we dont. we dont want to give up but we dont have back up. (anyway - who the idiot do that??)
at certain time - we think of giving things up. we not married. we dont have any commitment that we shud commited.- so, there is shud be no problem for us to give up.
but - we can't.we can't give up. we want to stay together. but yet we still got no plans. Again.
so AGAIN - we wait and wait and wait again. hoping for the best.
any idea that might help? pls.. give a real idea. (we tired expect all jokes ideas!)